Because you are in competition with all other men when trying to attract attractive women, it’s very important that you stand out as DIFFERENT and BETTER than those guys in the eyes of those girls. Otherwise, how do you stand any chance of being successful with women?
This little tool is a really good thing you can use once you’ve been talking to a woman for a little while (say, between 10 minutes and 30 minutes in). It achieves the following:
• It is interesting.
• It taps into everyone’s natural tendency to enjoy exploring their own psyche and having it explored by other people .
• It creates expectation and anticipation .
• It gets other people listening to you and your target, which builds your social value (thereby increasing your sexual attractiveness) and makes your target really appreciate talking to you.
• It sets you apart not only from the other people in the group (by making you seem more interesting and knowledgeable) but also from other men your target has verbally interacted with in the past.
So, what is the Room Test? It is similar to another psychological test called the Cube, except it is much more suited to use in an attraction and seduction setting. That’s because it’s shorter (and therefore requires less of an attention span from your target and other people who are listening) and it’s simpler for the target to complete (which makes it harder-hitting). Here’s how to do it.
1. “Okay, let’s do a little test. Do you find psychology interesting? Like…the real reasons do the things they do and what makes people tick?” [Yeah…definintely! Etc]
2. “Alright. You can close your eyes or keep them open while we do this (she’ll probably keep them open, unless you’ve already done the eyes-closed trust building exercise, which you can read about elsewhere on this blog). Now, imagine you’re in a large room. It’s all white and empty, except for one thing. In one corner there is a small black box. The far wall has a door in it—a big oak door with no letterbox. And on the right hand wall, there is a blacked-out window, which can be opened. There is no other way to see through the window. Imagine al of the clearly and vividly in your mind.” [Okay, I’ve got it.]
3. “Okay. This test is simple and because it’s simple it’s very accurate. I want you to think about this for a minute before answering. You have a choice. You can either open the box, open and walk through the door or open and climb through the window. The door and the window lead to completely different scenarios. Think about it. Which stands out to you as the right one. Which draws you in the most? Follow your heart—don’t worry about the logic.” Most women say the box, but it doesn’t really matter which she chooses. This ‘test’ is about taking what they say and ‘analyzing’ it in such a way to give the impression that is has revealed something accurate and true about the girl.
4. “Okay, what have you chosen? [I’ve chosen the box]. Ahh, okay! That’s interesting. Most people go for the door, because it’s the most normal and probably the easiest, because we’re all used to walking through doors, but we only rarely open small boxes whose contents we know nothing about. In your mind, go over and open that box. Kneel down and slowly lift the lift the lid. Inside you can see a glowing orb. It is a sphere that glows almost like a light bulb, except it is completely round and smooth. What color is it? [It’s red!]. Cool, okay. That’s all the information I need. Right…you chose the box. That is supposed to mean that you like mystery over normality. Most people don’t like taking risks and nor do you sometimes, but in this case, you chose the box and the box represents the unknown. That shows you are good at facing the unknown in the right circumstances. Because you didn’t choose the leave the room by going through the door or the window, you are obviously happy being the person you are, because that room represents your psyche. Now, the orb. You chose to make it red, which is a very fiery color. You’ve obviously got a passionate side, right? And that backs up the mystery side of you.” You job is to say what she wants to hear but not in an obvious way. Don’t just say, “That means you like your friends” or something. Mix in colorful language. If she chooses the door, tell her about he ambitious side; she wants to push herself and not settle for the norm, be it in her career or just in her thinking. If she chooses the window, tell her that people who go through the door are people who choose simple paths in life, like in their careers. She chose the window, which shows she doesn’t mind a challenge, etc, etc.
Use this room test and develop it to match your style. Add in new details, like what happens outside of the room. Or, perhaps there is a key in the box, which she can use on either the window or the door, etc. Make it a story in which the woman wants to get caught up and engrossed in and try to make her feel like it’s as accurate as possible. It’s a great way to build a strong bond between you and a woman.