The art of flirting can sometimes seem counter-intuitive. It doesn’t work like you’d logically expect it to. You’d think, on paper, that making fun of a girl would be a bad strategy for attracting her, but in reality this of course isn’t the case. You HAVE to make fun of her if you want to stand a chance of creating sexual chemistry. Of course, ‘making fun’ isn’t quite the right way to describe the kind of flirting we’re talking about—the good kind.
This post is about goofy comments. These are things you say to a girl to tease her in just the right way. The comments should come across as flirty but not TOO flirty. They should tease the girl but not be TOO controversial. If you’re too heavy-handed about delivering goofy comments, the girl will instantly recognize that you’re trying to tease her to make her react. So, what is a goofy comment in the context of attracting a woman? Well, in this case, it’s not the comment that’s goofy, it’s the aspect of the girl’s appearance or personality that is being drawn attention to. The main goal of a goofy comment is to slightly dent the girl’s image as a sexy, feminine woman without insulting her. And that’s a very important point—these comments aren’t back-handed compliments and they aren’t insulting. They’re fun and they should be things the girl will enjoy questioning you about. So, here’s a few examples of goofy comments:
- “Those shoes you’re wearing are cool—they’re like pixie boots.”
- “I like your retro-styling. Very daring!”
- “I love the way your eyes twitch when you laugh. Not twitch. I mean twinkle. I think.”
- “You’ve got shifty eyes, like you’re planning something evil…”
- “You like dancing? Cool. What’s your speciality? Let me guess…the robot. I bet you do a seriously good robot.”
- “…I disagree. You look like you could take down a couple of guys if you had to.”
- “I’d suggest we settle this little disagreement with an arm wrestle, but I dunno, I think you’d be a formidable opponent. You’ve got a look of determination in your eyes.”
As you can see, the one thing these goofy comments have in common is that all very subtly hint that the woman isn’t the sexy woman she wants to be—but NOT in a serious or derogatory way. They’re harmless, but they work.