Black Belt Seduction Blog: How to pick-up, attract and seduce women

What If I tell you there are 5 easy changes you can start making today that’s guaranteed to double your dating frequency with gorgeous women? That’s right.

We all know that to double our frequency, there may be some things about our personality or our behavior that we have to modify. Some of these changes are long term - such as developing confident body language. But there are also small changes that you can start doing today that’s guaranteed to give you great results.

Here are my 5 favorite tips - easy tips - that you can start doing today and see immediate results:

1. Recruit a wingman into your team.

A wingman is a friend who is also your sidekick in attracting women. Bringing in a wingman can help you tremendously in your interactions with attractive women. When you go in and approach a girl, especially if she’s with her friends, you gain an important ally in keeping the conversation or interaction lively and fun. You also have someone who’ll make you look good in front of the girl you’re after, bringing up your social value in effect.

2. Ask for opinions in your openers.

If you haven’t been doing this, you’ve been missing out on a lot of fun interaction with women. Openers are your basic lines when you approach a group of women for the first time, popularly called pick up lines.

A great way to open is with opinion questions. Questions like “What can men do that women cannot?” or “Men are in fact better cooks than women. That’s why most chefs are men. Do you agree?” The topic has to be somewhat controversial yet light and interesting. Remember, you want a fun conversation that will get everybody in a great mood, and not a debate.

The great thing about these openers is that they’re random enough that you can use it with any group of girls and at the same time, they’re easy to tweak to suit your situation.

3. Test your perfume before using it on the field.

No matter how good you look or how engaging you are, if you smell bad, you’re done for. No one’s going to notice anything else. So first off, if you’re not using perfume, start using one today. Next, It’s not enough to wear just any perfume - you need to test it first. Perfume is oil-based and once it’s sprayed on your skin, it reacts and changes based on the chemicals it finds there, like our sweat. So what smells good in the bottle might become foul once it sets in on our skin. So it’s best to always test - test before you purchase, and definitely test before you use.

4. Use Reverse Psychology.

We’re used to thinking that if we want to impress somebody, we have to behave pleasantly around them. There’s nothing wrong with that statement. It’s just that when trying to impress a cute girl you’ve just met, nothing can be more detrimental to your success than modeling pleasant behavior. If you haven’t notice, women always fall for the bad guys - the men with attitude. This is because women liked being challenged. They like taking on the feminine role in a relationship - which means you need to take on the dominant, masculine role. By all means, be nice and friendly, but don’t be afraid to disagree and to air contrary opinions either.

5. Relax and enjoy the ride!

Don’t be too uptight. Seduction is supposed to be a game and games are meant to be fun. It you view it too seriously, the tension will show in your movements, making you appear less confident around women. Whereas if you have fun at it, women will be drawn to you because women, like everybody else, enjoy being around fun people.