Black Belt Seduction Blog: How to pick-up, attract and seduce women

This is a really clever game. It’s clever because you can play it with a girl and by doing so flirt with her, tease her, demonstrate that you have high social value and generally quickly increase your chances of dating her.

It’s called ‘Pinch’—here’s how it goes.

You wait until your conversation with the woman has reached a pretty good stage. You both feel comfortable with each other—the silences don’t feel awkward, mostly because there aren’t many/any of them, etc. Wait until she says something witty in response to something you’ve said. Then say, “Hey, you’re quick! I like that…let’s see how quick you really are. This is a game called Pinch. Have you played it before?” She’ll say no. “Okay, here’s how it goes…” You should now pick up something light and thin, like a bar mat or a credit card. It’s good if you can borrow the item off her. “Right. Hold out your fingers like this [hold out your hand so that you’re making sort of a pinching pose with your fingers, with your pointer finger and your thumb level on top and your pinkie finger lowest down]…I’m going to hover this credit card above you fingers and drop it. All you’ve got to do is pinch your fingers and catch it, okay?” The split second she says yes, WHILE YOU’RE STILL LOOKING AT HER FACE, drop the card. It’ll slip right through her fingers. She’ll say, “Hey, I wasn’t ready!” You can tease her here. “What? You said okay! Alright, try again.” This time, you should let her get ready, but instead of dropping it, sort of twitch your fingers a little bit WITHOUT letting go of the card. She’ll pinch her fingers and as soon as she does, you can drop the card on top of her hand—it’s pretty funny. Before she protests, say sorry and laugh. This time, do it fair and square. It’s damn hard to catch it, so she’ll probably fail. You can then say, “Well you’re mentally agile…physically, not so much…” or something equally teasing.

This game is really good because there’s a lot of room for flirting and teasing the girl. You can trick her, you can say she’s slower than your grandma, you can do anything you want. It’s good to let her test you afterwards, because you’ll probably fail too, which makes things feel fair—she’s got one up one you too…”Ha ha!” she’ll say, “You’re not so quick either!” The whole thing is a great way to flirt with a woman without the need for loads of words and descriptiveness.