“New You” Tips To Make Yourself Attractive To Girls

Posted on December 30, 2009 by Carl Cu

The New Year is generally a time for making resolutions. If you’re ready to head in a direction that will guarantee you more girls, then listen up. Here are 5 SURE and EASY resolutions you should keep to make yourself attractive to girls!

1. Get your hair styled and your nails cleaned.

It may seem superficial to start off the year worrying about your looks. But if you are out to get girls to notice you, then there is nothing more important than making sure you look hot. Whether we like it or not, our appearance is the first thing that women notice about us. If we look clean and put together, we’d look like somebody most women want to date – and that pushes our social value higher.

Getting your hair styled by a top stylist (who knows what he’s doing) can be pricey. What you can do is have your hair styled by a senior stylist once and then go to a junior stylist for your regular maintenance cut. Even if your cut now is ok, getting it styled anew can help you stay current.

Now, when you go and get your hair styled, be sure to also have your nails cleaned. There is nothing that will turn women off than long and dirty fingernails and toenails. This year, make it habit to have these done once a month. That will make sure you’re ready to meet hot women all year long.

2. Practice good hygiene.

Not only will this benefit your appearance, but it will also help you stay healthy. I’m not talking about being obsessive about keeping clean – which in itself can turn off a lot of women. I’m talking about using deodorants and mouth wash and taking a shower before meeting someone.

These basic hygiene habits can affect your confidence a lot. I mean, if you don’t have to worry about B.O. and bad breath, wouldn’t that help you approach women more readily? This year, be sure to pay more attention to your oral and overall body hygiene.

3. If you have any skin problems, DEAL WITH IT LIKE A MAN!

Ignoring that skin problem will not solve it. And the worse part is, the longer you ignore it, the worse it will get. You know what I’m talking about – acne, dandruff, that itchy rash that never seems to go away. All of these things affect your confidence level. And we all know that women perceive bad skin as signs of bad hygiene and low social status.

This year, make it your priority to rid yourself of these confidence zappers. Just one visit to a dermatologist is all it takes to find out how to get rid of your skin problems once and for all.

4. Employ sincere flattery.

If you haven’t done so before, then you better start being generous with compliments especially around women. Avoid the obviously patronizing ones. Instead give sincere compliments on things women like being complimented on, and by this I mean things that will show them you are paying attention to them.

Telling them they look awesome is standard. Take this up a notch by noticing something new on them and tell them how great it looks on them – for example a new pair of earrings, or a new way of fixing their hair. To get them really talking, say something like “I don’t know what it is, but you look sort of different today… prettier, more confident. Did you make any changes recently?” You’d be surprised how women will naturally open up to this line.

5. Socialize More.

This year, make it a point to go out more often and to try new places to hang out in. It’s great to have a regular place you and your buds go to, but in order to meet a wide variety of interesting girls, it pays to be more adventurous in your choice of venue.

You don’t have to limit yourself to bars or to parties. You can attend gallery exhibits, watch a concert or a play, sign up for classes. Not only will these give you a wider female audience to unleash your charm on, but you also widen your social interests, which will make you smarter in conversations and a more interesting guy overall.

Make 2010 your year to be attractive to girls! Just apply these tips and you can look forward to a happier and brighter new year!


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8 Steps On How To Look Attractive To Women

Posted on November 28, 2009 by Carl Cu

Here’s an article we got permission from Tiffany at http://www.guygetsgirl.com to give you.

Enjoy!

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Hi Tiff here.

I received this question this morning.

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“Hey Tiff,
Dane here and I have always wanted to know how to look so
irresistable to the opposite sex?

It has been in my mind for a long time and I am dying to know the answer.

If you don’t mind could you give me steps that I can follow everyday to look
wondefully sexy?
Thanks a million.

Dane M”

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See, in the pickup community, we usually teach to ignore how we LOOK
because a lot of guys wanting to learn this stuff, don’t look great…

They aren’t naturally good looking.

So we make their personality stand out and that attracts women all on its own.

But what if you want to do the best for yourself and how you look?

Well, here’s 8 steps.

>>> 1. Get a slight tan. Not orange and not too deep.

It’s a health indicator to women and is a built in attraction trigger from days
when men would hunt – they’d be in the open and they’d get a tan. A guy with
pasty, pale skin would be what, a guy that stayed in a cave all day?!? Not
attractive.

A GOOD spray tan will do.

>>> 2. Get your teeth whitened.

Again, this is all down to looking healthy and being more attractive. Yellow
teeth indicates poor hygiene (not always true but in the opposite sexes mind
it does.).

>>> 3. Start working out.

If you don’t already, start working out. Women cannot help but be attracted to
fit and healthy men. A lot of women are turned off by HUGE muscles but
EVERY woman I know prefers a toned man. Lose any excess fat you have.
And work on being toned if you aren’t already. A great site for guys to lose
weight and build muscle quickly is perfectbodyplan.com – it’s fast and effective.

>>> 4. Walk and stand with upright posture.

Don’t puff your chest out to look like some wannabe hard guy. But imagine
you’re like a puppet on a string. Relax your shoulders. Stand up straight and
tall like you’re being held up by an imaginary string from the top of your head.
Straight backs are more attractive than bent over postures. Again, it’s a health
indicator and it’s built into women to search for the best potential father of their
offspring – even if they aren’t looking for kids right now.

>>> 5. Spend money on clothes and ALWAYS look your best.

I’m not talking about ALWAYS wearing a suit. Or ALWAYS wearing jeans.
You should have different outfits for different occasions. But you should NEVER
leave the house without being well styled. If you usually buy $50 jeans.
Buy a $200 pair. They last years if you choose right and they’ll fit better,
make you feel better and the girls will notice.

>>> 6. Be well groomed.

Go get a decent haircut. Step out of your comfort zone. Go to a decent hair
stylist and ask what the most popular haircut is right now. Get it done.
And watch women’s reactions to you.

If you’re going bald. SHAVE IT ALL OFF.

Don’t try to hide the fact you’re going bald or receding. It’s only a problem if
you make it a problem – women SMELL weakness. If you’re conscious of having
no hair, we won’t be attracted. Wear your bald head PROUDLY. It turns on
some women.

>>> 7. Good, clean shoes.

You’ve probably read it a million times but it’s TRUE. Women look FIRST at your
shoes. And they really DO notice. Get nice shoes. Keep them clean. Replace
when worn. It won’t BED you a woman, but it could be preventing you from
bedding one.

Don’t believe me? Ask a woman you know ;)

>>> 8. KILL acne, spots and pimples with Benzoyl Peroxide.

Seriously guys, if you have acne or spots (and I know guys well into their
thirties that still suffer with acne). Get some Benzoyl Peroxide based cream.
That stuff works like NOTHING ELSE. My ex had bad acne and Bacne (acne on
his back) and after a few weeks of using Benzoyl Peroxide… It was GONE!

Forever!

I hope these tips help you.

Tiff XXX
GuyGetsGirl.com

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Review: Derek Lamont’s – The Online Game Internet Attraction System from OnlinePickupSecrets.com

Posted on October 19, 2009 by Mr. M.

We’re seeing a global explosion of online dating sites and more importantly WOMEN using social network sites like Twitter, Facebook and MySpace. Women use this stuff ALL the time… And it seems females being on Facebook (or the latest social networking site) is as essential as having a cell phone… Or even a pair of shoes.

Women LOVE Facebook and Twitter and all the HOTTEST women are on there.

But did you know there are ‘copy and paste’ systems that make you STAND OUT from other men and DEMAND attention from women when using these sites?

Well there are.

And they are ultra powerful.

The latest system we’ve tried is Derek Lamont’s Online Game – Internet attraction system.

In his system which is FREE for a limited time, Derek and his team of “online pickup” specialists tell you how to meet, attract, and seduce beautiful girls from these social-networking websites.

Does it work?

Hell yes!

It’s tried and tested it and it uses many of the principles we teach here at Black Belt Seduction – only in a different format which makes them HUGELY effective when used online.

Derek lays all the info out in a easy to learn and easy to use system that REALLY does get results.

http://bbseducer.dlamont.hop.clickbank.net?tid=bbsblog

If you’re not into doing ‘cold approaches’ in the street or in a club, this really is for you.

Copy… Paste… Reply… Date.

TOO simple doesn’t it? Sounds too hypey?

Try it.

And you’ll see it really does become THIS easy to get dates with beautiful women in your area.

I highly recommend you check out Derek Lamont’s Online Game Internet Attraction System: http://bbseducer.dlamont.hop.clickbank.net?tid=bbsblog

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Three Secret Ways Guys Can Attract Girls

Posted on September 24, 2009 by Carl Cu

Good looks is important when attracting girls. But even good looks can only get you so far. In reality, there are plenty more traits women admire in men that are more important than good looks. Money helps, but that’s not what I’m talking about either.

These two – money and good looks – are usually the root of shyness in most guys.  They think that they are not rich enough or handsome enough to date gorgeous women. Popular media seems to support this opinion, and that’s why a lot of us are misled into thinking that unless you have Greek handsome features and Trump fortune, supermodels are just out of your league.

But then, look at the people around you – you see gorgeous girls dating men who are handsome and not so handsome, guys who drive Audis and Jaguars and the middle class guys who take the subway. What’s the common denominator that makes these men so successful with women regardless of their actual wealth and looks?

In this article, I’ll share with you the secret to getting sexy, smart and popular girls to like you. Here are the 3 secret ways guys can attract girls using traits that all women find sexy and irresistible in men.

1.       Confidence

 

If there’s one secret that will have a drastic effect on your dating life, it’s this: It’s not the money or the good looks that make rich and handsome guys attractive to women, but rather it’s the attitude, the air of certainty that they exude that makes them irresistible to women.

 

Why is this secret so powerful? Once you realize it’s all about confidence, then you’ll know exactly that what you need to build on is your attitude. You need to believe in your ability to attract women, to enjoy yourself when you’re with attractive women, to focus on the fact that women need your acknowledgement and approval more than you need theirs.

 

Confidence is a very potent weapon that guys can use in attracting girls. But how do you show confidence if you’re not that confident? Like anything else, it takes practice. You have to fake it till you make it. You have to ignore and bury the apprehension until they’re truly gone.

 

Be careful not to overdo it though – what women want is confidence, not arrogance.

 

2.       Eye Contact

Establishing eye contact is a sign of confidence. It’s also a way to communicate attitude, desire and emotion non-verbally. Once mastered, it’s a very effective tool for flattering women, teasing them, flirting, showing your dominance, establishing your sincerity and credibility and more.

Here are some eye contact techniques you can use and what they mean:

a.       Intent gaze from a distance – looking at a woman intently, and not looking away even when she sees you can be very sexy. It tells the woman that you desire her and that you are confident that you will prevail.

b.      Keeping eye contact during a conversation – this tells the woman that you are interested in what she’s saying and that you are listening to her. It is important to have this so that you will be perceived as honest and sincere.

c.       Breaking eye contact – done right, breaking eye contact during a conversation can be a sign of confidence and dominance.  It tells the woman that you are not afraid of offending her and in fact, she should be working even harder in impressing you so that you can reward her with your attention.

 

3.       Social Skills

One way of establishing dominance to let her see that you are dominant in most of your other social relationships.  If she sees that you’re comfortable, well-liked and even admired by peers or even people she considers her “social superiors”, then she’s likely to want to impress you.

This is also why in the early stages of getting to know a girl, you don’t want to just hang out with her the entire time that you are together. That will make it seem like you are clingy and desperate for her affection – which is a real turn off.

Instead, what you want to do is spend about 40% of your time talking to other people or introducing other people into your conversation with your girl. Go ahead and talk to other men and women – yes, even the gorgeous ones. Just remember to keep those conversations light and pleasant – absolutely no flirting with another girl.

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Interesting Topics on What to Talk to Girls About

Posted on September 15, 2009 by Carl Cu

When you are in the getting-to-know-each-other stage, it can be difficult to find enough topics to keep the conversation flowing. This is because you don’t know enough about each other yet and often you are unsure about how far you can go on a certain topic without putting her off or offending her.

At this early stage, your goal is two fold: First, you want to get to know her better and find out if she really is your type. Second, you want to make a good impression on her. You want her to like you back and to find you attractive as well.

A rule of thumb when it comes to these types of conversations is to remember to talk to her about the things she likes – and not just the things that you like or topics that you are comfortable with. Don’t hog the conversation or talk about yourself and your interests. Apart from appearing conceited, you also miss out on the opportunity to gather information about her that will allow you to impress her even more.

That said, it doesn’t mean that you go the other extreme and never talk about yourself your interest at all. This is just as bad as appearing conceited, because you lose out on the chance to show her what a great, smart and funny guy you are!

The key is to strike a balance, to have both of you participating and sharing in the conversation. If she’s happy to talk about her interests and share her views, let her. But if she’s the type who’s a bit reserved, someone who likes to listen, then be sure to pack enough stories to engage her interest.

So if you’re looking for ideas, here are some topics on what to talk to girls about during your first few meetings. These topics are great to use as starting points to any conversation, because they’re neutral, and they’re easy to navigate to pursue other, more interesting topics.

1.      The weather. Don’t laugh! It may sound mundane, but really, the weather as a topic has a rich potential as a springboard to other topics. For example, while talking about the weather, you can move the conversation to how she chose her outfit to get to work that morning, or how it affected the mode of transportation she used, the amount of traffic on the street, the weather in places she’s travelled to, food cravings that are weather dependent, or activities that are great to do when the weather is a specific way. I could go on and on, and so can you.

2.      Work. The amount of time we spend at work means a large part of who we are is defined by what we do. Talking about work will allow you to see where her passions are. At the same time, talking about work will also allow her to see how talented you are. It adds to your value as boyfriend material to know that you’re a well regarded expert in a certain field. Keep in mind that we’re not talking about how much you’re earning. Even if you don’t earn much (not that I’d advise you to talk about how much each of you are making), as long as you show confidence, passion and expertise, it’s enough to make her think highly of you.

3.      A topic that you’re an expert at. And speaking of expertise, when faced with a lull in the conversation, it’ll be good for you to share a story about something that you’re truly an expert at. It doesn’t have to be work related – it could be about a hobby that you enjoy, an interesting piece of news you read that morning, an opinion about something somewhat controversial, a trivia that really amazed you, a new “it” gadget you’re lusting after – it could be about anything, really, as long as it’s something you know inside out. You don’t want to be caught with an “I’m not really sure…” when she asks you more about it.  

4.      Media – TV, music, movie, site, etc. Popular media is a great starting point to find out more about her other interests. A popular movie, what’s playing on her ipod, where her fave artists or bands are playing, or the blogs that she’s following – these are all topics that you can talk on and on about.

5.       Food. Food is a great topic because it can be controversial when you need it to be, and it can also be safe and fun. Everyone is always on a diet – even the no-diet diet is a diet. People love to talk and share interesting food finds. It could also be a pre-curser to a conversation on where you’ll go on your next dinner rendezvous.

The secret to making a conversation flow? Read and share! Read as often as you can on topics that you find interesting. And then practice sharing what you know with other people. That’s the best way to always have a roster of interesting topics to help you decide what to talk to girls about.

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Nine Tips on How To Talk with Girls

Posted on September 7, 2009 by Carl Cu

Having a great conversation is the best way to get a girl to like you. Not only will she think that you’re smart and funny, but she will also think that the two of you have chemistry – that you are mentally, socially and sexually compatible just because you were able to keep a conversation flowing. That’s the power of a fantastic conversation.

On the other hand, a terrible conversation is devastating to your chances of ever dating the girl that you like. So, pay attention, gentlemen! Here are some ideas on how to talk with girls so that you’ll get the response that you want – which is to get her to like you romantically:

1.      Be spontaneous – Even if you have prepared the topics that you are going to talk about and memorized every detail, data and statistic on those topics, you need to be able deliver your messages in a spontaneous and fun way. Plan, but don’t plan too much that you’ll get flustered if the conversation goes into an area or a topic that you don’t know much about. Conversation is a two-way street and you have to be open to how your partner responds. And you need to react appropriately.

2.      Look confident – Confidence is a very potent elixir. If you appear confident (even if your knees are shaking), girls will like being around you.

3.      Talk less about yourself and more about her – You mission is to make her feel as special as much as possible. So instead of just talking about you, get her to talk about herself, what she likes, what ticks her off. Girls want to feel like you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them. So by paying attention to their opinions and views, you are actually doing something flattering.

4.      Use the right body language – True, how to talk with girls deal mainly with how you verbalize your ideas. But do you know that having the right body language can reinforce and even strengthen your appeal?  What you want to communicate here is that you are confident, relaxed, and very pleased about the situation. What you don’t want to betray is nervousness, tension and panic. So work on your habits and mannerisms to make sure you don’t give away your true state.

5.      Use eye contact. Establishing eye contact is a great way to show confidence and to let her know that you are paying attention to her. I bet you know how important it is to keep eye contact, but did you know that it’s just as important to break eye contact? Yup, you read right. Being able to break eye contact and look around (at other people and other women, too) occasionally is a sign of confidence.

6.      Get other people involved in the conversation. If you can get other people involved in your conversation with your girl a few times, it would be a great way to relieve the pressure of keeping the conversation going. At the same time, being able to pull people in will allow you to flex your social muscle and impress her with it.

7.      Talk to other people from time to time. You definitely want her to know that you are enjoying your company, but you also want to let her know that if she wants to impress you or get you to adore her, she’d have to do better to get your full attention all the time. That’s why it’s important to be able to casually cut your conversation with your girl and then talk to a different group or person. This tells her that you can have a great time on your own, that a lot of people actually enjoy talking to you. This ups your value as a potential boyfriend and effectively shifts the burden of making a good impression from you to her.

8.      Gradually increase tactility. Adding a little physical contact will only make your conversation more exciting. Introduce tactility appropriately. Teach her a dance move, thumb wrestle, “read” her palm, hug her. And when the moment is right for it, kiss her.

9.      Tease her. The last thing you want to happen is to end up in your girl’s “friends only” zone. Make it clear that you are not interested in just being friends with her. Aside from increasing tactility, another way to do this is to introduce teasing into your conversation.  

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