Black Belt Seduction Blog: How to pick-up, attract and seduce women

Did you know that women will know within mere seconds of meeting you if they want to date you or not? This only goes to show that this choice is not based on a rational decision making process but is instead based on intuition and stereotypical profiles of men. This makes it really crucial for you to understand how you can make a great impression every time you go out and meet women.

To be able to do this, we must first understand what factors go into how women intuitively decide whether you are date material or not. These factors have their roots in women’s biological make up and how we as a specie determine what a good sexual match is.

For many centuries, women have always defined a good sexual match as one who has strong genes and the ability and willingness to protect her and her offspring. The manifestations of these are confidence, leadership ability, social status. The man who manifests all these traits is known as the alpha male. He does not necessarily have to be good looking or rich as long as his status is one where other men look up to and aspire to be like him and other women vie for his attention.

If you want to fain women’s favorable opinion upon meeting them, you need to transform yourself into today’s equivalent of an alpha male. How you act around other people - both men and women  - will form the basis of women’s evaluation whether or not you are alpha male. So, what kind of behavior are we referring to?

The first criterion is confidence. You need to be confident in your speech and in your actions. You need to be comfortable in your own skin so that you will not feel the need to sacrifice a bit of yourself or your beliefs just to please other people. You can ignore the pressure to comply with what other people think or fear other people’s opinion because of your strong self-belief.

The second criterion is leadership ability. In times past, alpha males are often the leaders of their tribes as a result of them earning the esteem and trust of the members of the tribe. Fast forward to modern times, alpha males often take the lead in various social situations. They continue to be decision makers because they continue be regarded highly. If you want to become an alpha male, you need to who women that you can step up and take the lead.

The third criterion is high social status. Social mores dictate a code of behavior between a leader and his followers. In exchange for the trust and the admiration of his followers, a leader is expected to always do what’s best for his followers. He makes his decisions with care and a considerable amount of thought because he knows that his status as a leader is contingent on his ability to make decisions that are good for his group. This relationship requires loyalty and responsibility on the part of the leader, which satisfy women’s intuitive need not just to find sexual partners with strong genes, but also one who will be loyal to her when the time comes when she has to rely on him to protect her and her offspring.

If you are not alpha male, you can become one over time. As you may have realized, being alpha male is not just adopting a set regimen of behaviors. Instead, it involves first and foremost, a change in outlook. With proper guidance and sufficient knowledge, you can become an alpha male and use more advanced seduction techniques to create attraction within seconds of meeting women.