Black Belt Seduction Blog: How to pick-up, attract and seduce women

There are at least two things wrong with ‘romantic pick up lines’. First is the word ‘romantic’ and second is the phrase ‘pick up lines’. Let’s tackle the romantic thing first. Your job is to go up to a woman you’ve never met before and get talking to her. She knows nothing about you, not even your name. Is being romantic really the best thing to do? So many men would say yes because they think the word romance somehow sums up a kind of perfect mode of behavior for attracting women, but it doesn’t. You should NOT try to be romantic when you first meet a woman. It’d be like a salesman trying to sell you some gasoline before you’ve even bought or SEEN the car. Stupid. Romance is something that should always come after attraction and rapport. You need to bond with a woman before you can consider being romantic—that is, doing things that highlight and strengthen a strong sexual and emotional bond between you and her.

Now onto the phrase ‘pick up lines’. The idea of a line you can use to attract a woman is a common fallacy. The only times lines work is when they’re delivered in a way that makes the woman see the man as high value and funny. It’s not the line that does it—it’s the guy, in spite of the stupid line.

So, forget about lines like “Did it hurt? [When?]…When you fell from Heaven!!!” Using stuff like that is a sure fire way to ruin your chances of looking attractive to a woman.  Here’s what you need to do instead:

• Maintaining and displaying your high social value should always be at the top of your to-do list. So, you need to make sure nothing you do lowers it—this, of course, means avoiding stupid pick-up lines.

• Don’t use a pick up line, use an OPENER. As you should already know, an opener is a first comment or question which follows these rules: it is interesting, it requires the woman or group to think about it and respond, people WANT to reply to it, it’s sometimes funny or little controversial, and it doesn’t make you look needy or like you want something (attention) from the group or the women in the group.